
Foundation
For where two or three are gathered in my name,
I am there among them.
-Matthew 18:20 (NRSV)
Finally, all of you, have unity of spirit, sympathy,
love for one another, a tender heart, and a humble
mind. Do not repay evil for evil or abuse for abuse,.
but, on the contrary, repay with a blessing. It is
for this that you were called-that you might inherit
a blessing.
1 Peter 3;8-9 (NRSV)
I enjoy attending the church. Isn't that enough?
Is it necessary to actually become a member?
Joining a congregation is an important step and not
one to take lightly. It is significant not only for
the individual who becomes a member, but also for the
congregation. In becoming
a
member a person says, "Yes, I am a part of the
church. This community is central to my life."
A congregation says, "Yes, you are a part of this
congregation. We are blessed by the gifts and perspective
of persons who are new among us." Moreover, a commitment
to membership in a congregation can help sustain people
in the inevitable low or dry times in a life of faith.
Without this commitment it is easier to drift away during
such times, or to be overlooked by the congregation.
Why become a member of a congregation?
One of the distinctive characteristics of Christian
faith is that it is shared. It occurs in community,
in the company of others. From its Old Testament beginnings
(Genesis 12:2, "I will make of you a great people"
to the New Testament (Matthew 18:20, "For where
two or three are gathered in my name, I am in the midst
of them"), this faith has drawn people into community
with others who share their vision, story, values, hopes,
and dreams. While personal faith and individual commitment
are essential, it is God's purpose to create a people,
who are "salt of the earth and light of the world"
(Matthew 5:13-14).
Furthermore, a congregation, said the early Christian
teacher Paul, is like a body. He described the church
as "the Body of Christ." No one person is
the whole body, each is a part. We need each other's
gifts to complement our own. Our own faith is strengthened,
tested, and deepened as we share in the life of a community
of faith.
What is the process for becoming a member?
Let's divide this into the informal and the formal process.
Informally, we encourage you to attend worship and participate
in aspects of a congregation's life over a long enough
period of time to get to know that congregation. A decision
for or against a congregation should not ordinarily
be made on the basis of one worship service or event.
You might want to arrange a visit with the pastor or
a member of the congregation to discuss your interest
and find out more. Ask about the church's history, vision
for the future, expectations of members, important events.
Assess whether this is a congregation that is a good
match with your background, needs, and interests.
The informal process may overlap with a formal process
for joining a congregation. Many congregations have
classes for persons interested in membership. Find out
if such classes are offered and when. You should be
able to take part before making up your mind about whether
this is the church for you.
When and how does someone actually become a member?
Most congregations receive new members during their
regular services of worship on a Sunday morning. There
are two ways in which new members are received. The
first is by baptism, and the second by reaffirmation
of baptism.
Baptism is the sacrament of initiation into the church.
If you have never been baptized, membership will ordinarily
be by baptism, and your preparation should include study
of the meaning of the sacrament and preparation with
the pastor for being baptized.
Congregations of the United Church of Christ recognize
and accept the baptism of other Christian churches.
If you have been baptized previously, you will have
the opportunity to "reaffirm your baptism"
as you join a new congregation. Some persons are coming
from another congregation where they have been active
members. This often happens when people move to a new
town or city. Then you or your pastor may request a
"letter of transfer" from your previous congregation.
What are the responsibilities of church members?
Different congregations will respond to this question
with different specific answers. It is
one
you should ask of the pastor or lay leaders. But it
is generally true in congregations of the United Church
of Christ that the following are expected of members
of the church: First, that you make a genuine commitment
to Christian faith and life, and seek those experiences
that will help you grow in your faith and the practice
of it. Second, that you participate regularly in worship,
the center of a congregation's life. Third, that you
make it a point to be an informed member who takes part
in congregational meetings and decision making. Fourth,
that you support the church financially, by committing
a proportion of your income to the work of the church.
And, finally, that you seek to build relationships with
others in the congregation through conversation, small
groups, retreats, or similar opportunities,
What follows becoming a member?
Some congregations have structured steps which follow
joining, including a visit from the pastor or a lay
leader, further classes, or some way of assessing your
interests and helping you find ways to be involved that
fit your interests and needs. Other congregations do
this more informally. Some people may be eager to serve
on a board or be involved in a ministry of the church
or take part in a study program. Others may wish simply
to be a part of the worshiping congregation. As one
becomes a member of a congregation it is often helpful
to locate at least one smaller group in the church (e.g.
choir, a study group, a mission task force, a prayer
group) in which to participate in order to get to know
some others better. This helps most people to make the
move from deciding to join to feeling that they belong.